There often comes a gripe when many are confronted with the notion that there is not one living problem that cannot be solved through radical change, extreme responsibility, and the consistent effort of the two combined. Granted, we can speak of ill health and other circumstances for which there ‘is no solution’. In a way it is not the problem itself that is the issue, and more so is it your disposition in regard to it.
The simplest way to put it: there is always an option that has been overlooked for fear of ego, uncertainty, and the unknown. If you cannot pay the mortgage on the house, downsize your 50-thousand-dollar car and now look at the breathing room you have. Radical, extreme, and may prime the ego to say ‘we are losing, we’ve lost something we once gained’. Such actions for change can be likened to taking a few steps back for the run-up required to make the leap. Allowing themselves to be controlled by such forces through the ego can lead one to disregarding genuine options of action.