Often, we can find our peaceful opportunities in aiding others in their obstacles only when we are given permission to do so. Help the man up if they raise their hand for your aide. A reminder that the issues we face are tailored to us either by God, or the machinations of our own behaviours and consistent thought patterns. As these obstacles appear to the observer from their specific perspective, it can be enlightening to focus upon another’s relative obstacles, serving as a reminder that it is a matter of perspective and action over time. All can be solved within the domain of this plane for existence, and the factor of change (such that the actions made have their chance of occurring as output) is time.
Meditate.