A reminder to check in with the perspectives of those closest to you. What you do in your eyes may be vastly different and/or ignored (intentional or otherwise) in others. It is less your place to control these perceptions, it is more so within a level of duty in a duty of care for those whom you keep, and a worthy exercise to how one is found by their friends. This can also open new topics of conversation in which the two of you can bond and learn new things about one another, the persona you play now, is adapted and changed from the persona you play later, and hence at any moment in which two bond, it is unique in that those personas in that meeting are past, and here is the new persona every moment built from the moments that came before.

Meditate.