So where is your ‘place’? Where you choose it to be. The caveat forms when you learn that the choice in question is affected by certain principles and feelings that you have also chosen. Governed by past choices many sit in a notion that it is that and only that and changing it would be akin to changing the stars. You can always change. You can always decide a new. This can often require a time step between making such choices and seeing the mind shift in alignment to that. As starting a new habit poses resistance each time until formed. You’ve made a new decision and now must keep to that until the mind and/or persona has shifted to match it. Resistance then, is the persona or personality’s fight with change, with possibly losing parts of itself and gaining others. Possibly as there is often resistance toward something that has little to zero bearing change for the salient persona.

Meditate.