In the test of wills remind yourself that both are human in their seeking. That in amidst the argument or debate, both are the proclamation of justice for themselves in some manner. That as one converses, they provide opportunities for all whom listen to feel. That it is a reality based on perception and feeling far more than one of objective truth and fact. Objectiveness only exists as a construct from the subjective self, a Boolean operation at the grandest scale. All in all, be wary of those who construe you within their perception, that one is aware of other identifying factors, it makes the toil far less troublesome.
Meditate.