Support and faith. These the basis for all aide in the growth of self and that self that we egoically isolate from one another. Support in our hardships whatever they may be, intentional or otherwise, real or exaggerated (which is still real from the emotional). Support provided from the basis of giving aid and comfort as one tackles the problems within their locus of control. To make a conscious commitment to allowing those to carry out their tasks and duties, that we do the same for ours and merely support one another in that. It is outside your place to force the solution for a problem or task that is for another. Faith then, in that person for as they face these struggles and tackle these tasks they may find their doubts, it is you to allay such fear and do what you can to convince them of what is already true: they can do it, and they can do it confidently.

Meditate.