A reminder that the understanding of another is rooted within their locus of control. That there are cases where one gets to allow all to be seen in due time, to push through the veil of doubt brought upon by others and to strive for far more. Break the limits you hold, and give it a shot, there may well just be a new sky to find. These continual conditionals upon how the other party has decided to feel is a greater bottleneck to the grander schemes of vision, there is a time and place to explain, a time and place to contain, and a time and place to sustain your efforts and progress. Remember that.
Meditate.