Careful Reason and discussion provide the opportunity for co-creation. To express one’s parameters to a new grouping of people within future contexts is to expand the possibility of fruition and achievement. Many choose to immediately overshare for this, to provide so much information that many overload and hence shut down upon any further aide. To discuss parameters is to bestow upon another a deadline or specific objective within the context to which you have set your expectations to reach, for many this is enough, and if one is to ask for more information then give it to the depth of their questioning. Oversharing can become likened to pouring out the cup of the very energy we use to achieve that thing in the first place. Talking about it gives a little kick of yay chemicals, doing it gives back more yay chemicals and the reality of it itself.
Meditate.