So, in our service to others, do well to remember what is yours to aide in, where is your place? The puzzle is far less gratifying and learning if the solution is so willingly given or spoiled. The same applies for humans working through objectives, aide when asked, and ask to aide, to aide without permission on a trivial obstacles (as to pertain to something other than immediate physical danger, and even then) is to pay a major component in moving that dividual away from their independence and trust. Aide when and where you can, that is you are allowed to. It is at the warrant of the dividual for whom has the task under their care, to encroach upon it is to step toward emotional turmoil, what use is the fortifying journey, if every monster, obstacle, and shrub has been pre-beaten by another of whom was seldom asked?
Meditate.