In the persona we discuss, we look for nuance. The subtlety that demonstrates a penchant to match and fulfill the better forms of dialogue in reply to our actions. It is necessary to building deeper and far more meaningful relationships. Whether romantic or friendly, the need to act ruthlessly with boundaries and casting choices for the people in your life is also necessary. Ruthless and strict in the opting out of their application for you, one can still give chances and be all-round nice, it is once that it is clear they are meant for another play that you then kindly and swiftly move them onto their next big thing.
Meditate.